I remember the first time I put a bell on Slavewife's collar. She got upset and said it wasn't pretty or sexy, it just made her feel like a doll I was playing with. To her credit, she figured out within seconds that that was the point.
People may or may not agree with me on this but let’s see. In bondage, I feel the hands/arms must be tied behind the back. It looks hotter imo and it is harder to escape.