I'm a big guy. Generally don't do selfies for this reason exactly. It's not from one or a small group of individuals, either. I get this as a first reaction from a dozen sources a day, even strangers. I can't smile anymore.
I was punished and had to ruin in my cage last night. She knows how rough that is, so she heaped on the praise this morning. (Ignore the grammar, She is at work and has to send texts quickly often missing autocorrect errors)