I remember the first time I put a bell on Slavewife's collar. She got upset and said it wasn't pretty or sexy, it just made her feel like a doll I was playing with. To her credit, she figured out within seconds that that was the point.
It’s a sort of nuanced.. but posing her for photos which I have unrestrained freedom to share with anyone I want.. feels like it qualifies as bdsm. Exhibit A: “Arch your back so I can put it on Reddit and show your amazing ass to whoever I want”, f