I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
40(f) - 130lbs (ish) - 5ft 7. my ass isn't as high and pert as it once was, neither are my breast and there's cellulite. But, it's my body, I've earned every mark and I love them all