40(f) - 130lbs ish - 5ft 7. It took me a while to accept the changes in my body after kids. Wonky boobs, chunky hips/thighs and a bum that isn't as high as it once was. But I love my "mom bod" and Reddit has taught me that I'm not alone. People don'
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.