I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
M31 5’7” 190 lbs haven’t dated seriously in a few years after my last relationship wrecked my sense of self. Starting to get more confident as I get my life back on track with healthy choices! Still have some weight to drop, but getting there