f, 26yo, 152 lbs, 5’0â€. 2 days after breast reduction surgery. it hurt too much to relax my shoulders back, stand up straight, do all the things I do to feel attractive and comfortable. and yet, I felt SO much more like myself, like I had the body I
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.