F39, 5'5" 130lbs. Never thought I'd have the courage to post anything like this. Had negative body image & no confidence all my life, now as a mother of 3 it's even worse. Hoping some honest opinions may help me be a little more positive.
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.