Long ago my wife had a coworker that befriended her, then befriended me, then super slowly seduced her and I down a cuckolding path. He ended up being her bf while I was more of a third wheel. Oddly for us we loved the journey and the “mind fuck” asp
Stop thinking through the lens of traditional morality, start listening to your ovulating body and it'll tell you who to breed with. Ajd 95% of the times, it won't be your husband.