What would you say builds an open and fun dynamic between subs & dommes? For me it's about feeling understood, valued and being able to trust. Only then can we be our authentic selves and explore without limits within the boundaries discussed.
I am not forbidding you from having an orgasm; I am simply taking away the control from you. As my submissive, it is not up to you to decide when and how you cum. That decision belongs solely to me.