Intimacy, love, and healing are available in abundance if you can let some things go. You have to let some things go to make room for the really wonderful things. If your clutching some ideological construct and not experiencing intimacy, you might want
If they want to talk the will. If they want to be with you they will. If they want to surrender they will. If they want to fuck they will. If they want to watch they will. Everybody is waiting around for an invitation. No invitation needed.
