You want your property to have good relationships with each other. No jockeying for position in your household. To you - the owner - they’re equally worthless.
I know I said if you settled out of court, we could do this nicely. My boyfriend unfortunately doesn't agree. I know you are feeling a lot right now. Probably embarrassed. I know you signed all your accounts over. Shh shh. He said to keep you in the bas