after a fight, dad made mom go outside in the yard and had me and my brother spray her with a hose like a dog. dad thought it was hysterical, but i'll never forget how her wet white clothes clung to her body, humiliating her by revealing everything.
So I canned my secretary after 25 years of service and gave the job to my 19 yo daughter. Sure, you can call it nepotism if you want, my daughter has some incredible "office" skills the latter couldn't compete with.