Do it because six months from now, you will thank yourself. Sit him down and make a couple of new rules that will serve you both. You will be glad you did.
The older you get, the more you realize you have no desire for drama, conflict and any kind of bullshit. You just want a cozy home, a nice book and a person who knows how you drink your coffee.....oh and a satisfying place to sit.
Some people don’t know what to do with a good man, like not knowing how to swim. They panic first when they jump in. Then overthink it, over analyze it, over manage them. But oh my....if they figure it out.
You'll probably never get the apology. Or the truth. But you're still here. I'm still here. There is world enough and time enough for us both. Let's jump all in on all of this and let this thing of ours lead us rather than us trying to lead it.