Flirting is a lost art. The longer I can keep the tease amplified, the more he's open, available and compliant. I'll start at dinner and it won't end till I've had all the fun I can have. By then, he's ready to do anything I want him to.
If they want to talk the will. If they want to be with you they will. If they want to surrender they will. If they want to fuck they will. If they want to watch they will. Everybody is waiting around for an invitation. No invitation needed.
You'll probably never get the apology. Or the truth. But you're still here. I'm still here. There is world enough and time enough for us both. Let's jump all in on all of this and let this thing of ours lead us rather than us trying to lead it.