The older you get, the more you realize you have no desire for drama, conflict and any kind of bullshit. You just want a cozy home, a nice book and a person who knows how you drink your coffee.....oh and a satisfying place to sit.
If they want to talk the will. If they want to be with you they will. If they want to surrender they will. If they want to fuck they will. If they want to watch they will. Everybody is waiting around for an invitation. No invitation needed.
Intimacy is not just physical. To crave a persons presence and energy rather than just their body is the purest form of intimacy. Play like the universe relies on it.