We're mature women, we want to talk about naughty things. We want to do naughty things. I want you to do naughty sensual things to me. I want to do naughty sensual things to you.
Flirting is a lost art. The longer I can keep the tease amplified, the more he's open, available and compliant. I'll start at dinner and it won't end till I've had all the fun I can have. By then, he's ready to do anything I want him to.
Do it because six months from now, you will thank yourself. Sit him down and make a couple of new rules that will serve you both. You will be glad you did.