As a soft Queen, he's passionately drawn to the intimacy and connection that evolved leadership can provide. If you are operating in a way that implies that he needs to meet you in some "unattainable delusional space" then you may want to rethink your
Don't take your eyes off me. No..keep them open. Don't you dare close them. I'm gonna make you come and if you take your eyes off me I'm going to stop.